"Your Thing Has to be Very Long Before I Can Enjoy It"; A Woman Talks About Size (Does Size Matter?)

According to the website Thoughtscatalog.com, this is what some women say about size. This is not my opinion though.

1.Too small—still hungry, too big—tummy ache

(Avi)

2. I need to feel my man way up. Yes, it matters. I don’t want to have to be telling a man to stop tickling me. I need to feel my man way up.

(Ariana)

3. I’m not looking for a cruise ship, but at the same time, I need a decent size boat to ride the rough seas. I always hear people say it’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean. Well, if that’s the case, a lot of men drown out at sea. I’m not looking for a cruise ship, but at the same time, I need a decent size boat to ride the rough seas.

(Hannah)

4. can’t handle them if they’re too big. I can’t handle them if they’re too big. I’m fragile and it definitely is way more painful than pleasurable if a guy is huge. At the same time, you don’t want someone too small that you can barely feel or enjoy. A good average size tends to do the trick for me.

(Alice)

5. I dated a guy with the size of my pinky, and sometimes I wasn’t even sure if we were doing something. It matters. The whole big hands, big feet thing is a total lie. He doesn’t need a foot-long, 4-inch-round thing, but there’s got to be something substantial.

(Michelle)

6. As long as you’re not under average, I’d say size doesn't matter. As long as you’re not under average, I’d say no. We’re not going to be disappointed if you don’t whip out an anaconda.

(Rachel)

7. I once met this guy with a really small one, and the first thing that came to my mind was whether Guinness Book of World Records knew about him. We had it once and it was terrible.

(Kayla)

8. My BF is a lung poker, and when he hits that one spot that’s almost painful it’s just pure ecstasy. I like the length. girth eh. but my BF is a lung poker, and when he hits that one spot that’s almost painful it’s just pure ecstasy. 

(Lizz)

9. Too long or too thick can both hurt. Too long and it just ‘hit bottom’ and that hurts a total mood kill. But too thick and it hurts too. I gave birth twice, I don’t want to be stretched like again without the benefit of hormones and painkillers.

(Deborah)

But Does Size Really Matter?

Now disregarding the opinions of the above women, previous studies that have asked about the importance of size have shown that it's a much less important issue for women than it is for men. In a 2006 University of California study, 85% of women said they were satisfied with their partner's size, while just 55% of men said they were satisfied with their own penis size. It's more of man's thing here.

The average female is just about three to four inches deep, so most guys are doing just fine with their average dimensions," says Kerner. "In my experience as a therapist, when size matters, it's generally because a guy is too large rather than too small, and that can lead to the whole act being painful. Regardless of size, most intercourse positions fail to directly stimulate the clit. "Men who care about their female partner's satisfaction should worry less about their organ's dimensions and more about getting 'literate.'"

The most recent study's authors acknowledge that some of the volunteers may have taken part because they were more confident with their size than the general male population. "Confidence to take part in size measurements may bias the measures to the larger end of the distribution," they write. "Equally there may be a bias towards the smaller end of the distribution if the full stage of genital development had not been reached in some men" under 18 years old, as some participants were 17.

The main thing here is that there is more to a successful union, satisfaction and being a man. Some of the online opinions like the one above may be totally fictitious and manipulated for some very selfish reasons which may range from getting you to go purchase some fake and unverified so-called enlargement products. If you are still worrying about size, I'll tell you to wake up, stop watching porn and start living life. Get a life. Work on developing your mind and your physical and spiritual being. You are awesome just the way you are. Accept that and start living your life. Abstain from consuming pornographic contents, they are designed to rob you of your self-worth. Most of you wouldn't have clicked this link, had I not used those photos. You see your life.

Get involved in community service, help build the nation, volunteer to teach in churches and mosques. You are amazing just the way you are.

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