6 Flirting Mistakes That Will Ruin Your Chances For A Relationship

Being "attractive" isn't about the perfect outfit or flawless makeup; it's about the energy you're putting out into the world and the way you make people feel when they're around you. There are mistakes we all make when flirting that make us less attractive, for the simple reason that they hide or constrain the best parts of our personalities.

1. Crossing your arms

According to behavioral specialists crossing your arms in front of you is one of the fastest ways to signal that you don't want to be approached. Instead, try keeping your posture loose and relaxed, or make sure you're always holding a drink to keep your body language open.

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2. Angling away from the other person

Keeping our feet pointed towards a person sends out a signal that we're interested. However, angling our body away from the person has the opposite effect, sending out the unconscious cue that we're not attracted to them. Keep this in mind the next time you're getting your flirt on.

3. Making them jealous

One of the fastest ways not to attract a person is by trying to make them jealous, either by flirting with other people or talking about other people you're interested in. Odds are this will only end up pushing them away.

4. Waiting too long to text

Waiting days to text someone you like back because you don't want to seem uncool or overeager can actually just send the message that you're not interested. So if you like someone, don't be afraid to show it.

5. Talking about your exes

Avoid taking about your exes when in mid-flirt. It can make it seem like you're not over the other person, which will give the person you're talking to instant reservations. Try to keep things positive and in the moment as much as possible.

6. Getting too close

It is important to let things flow between you and the other person naturally. Getting up in their personal space too quickly, or touching too aggressively can definitely make another person uncomfortable if your connection isn't there yet. So be mindful and respectful at all times when on the chase!

~bustle